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136. Mother-Daughter Journey: Don’t Cry Over Soup: An Allegory — 7 Comments

  1. When I first heard the Beatle’s song, Let It Be”, I thought it was intended to be ironic. How could letting it be prove a solution to a problem I should solve? But now when frustrated that my well intentioned fixes don’t achieve the positive results I anticipate, I feel my sadness then practice patience and forbearance. I breathe and let it be. Obviously, some situations can’t be ignored, but just like a mom of a teen must pick her battles, a mom of her aged mom must pick battles too. I am practicing letting it go in some challenges of my life. I hope this is helpful, if not please ignore. Love, your ‘lainie.

  2. Susan,you are a beautiful person, you do everything so beautiful! I do think you are being hard on yourself. I have a wonderful daughter too,she is everything to me. I know it seems cold the way your Mother treats you, but I think she does not want you to really see her or talk to her, she might crumble. will write you, need to let you know my thoughts. I was so happy to see you edit and tell more, I adore your blog. Please get rest. Be sending you a note. love keep on thinking good
    love Joann

  3. Missed you there for a few days. Hope you’re finding some “me” time. And a Happy Mother’s Day to you, too, don’t forget “you.”

    Hugs,
    245

  4. Truly, you take my breath away. You amaze. Please, no more self-recriminations – you put the rest of us to shame!

  5. You’re torturing yourself waiting for the other shoe to drop. You have been the most thoughtful, caring, loving daughter that any mother could hope to have.
    It might be time to just listen to her complaints and say yes Mom okay Mom.
    Doing the things that she needs done, picking up her mail, making sure all her paperwork is turned in Etc those are the things that you need to keep doing, the rest is just listen.
    😘😘

  6. Oh geez I’m glad you could write something. It is amazing how as our aging parents get older we are reminded of the things we don’t like!! It hurts to realize that parents are people and not I effect. ((Hugs))

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