153. Poetry: Anne Sexton: Two poems
Anne Sexton was born Anne Gray Harvey on November 9, 1928, in Newton Massachusetts.
She attended prep school and finishing school, then eloped with Alfred Muller Sexton at age 19 and relocated from Boston to Baltimore. She gave birth to her first daughter in 1953 and was soon diagnosed with severe depression and was hospitalized after a breakdown. She was released and gave birth to her second daughter in 1955. She had another breakdown and attempted suicide.
While recovering, her therapist recommended she write poetry as a form of therapy. She was accepted into the graduate writing program at Boston University. She studied under Robert Lowell and befriended fellow students Sylvia Plath, George Starbuck, and Maxine Kumin. She gained a reputation as a poet and was invited to lecture at Harvard. Her first book, “To Bedlam and Part Way Back,” appeared in 1960 and was nominated for a National Book Award. She won the Pulitzer Prize for her 1967 work, “Live or Die.” Her work was controversial; she received honorary degrees, then a full professorship at Colgate University.
In 1973 she had another breakdown, divorced her husband, had still another breakdown and was hospitalized. On October 4, 1974 she committed suicide by asphyxiation in the garage of her house. While her legacy may be somewhat overshadowed by that of her friend and fellow confessional poet Sylvia Plath, Sexton’s poetic accomplishments cannot be underestimated; she has a decidedly open, frank, feminine voice.
The Truth The Dead Know 1959
read by the author
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Gone, I say and walk from the church,
refusing the stiff procession to the grave,
letting the dead ride alone in the hearse.
It is June. I am tired of being brave.
We drive to the Cape. I cultivate
myself where the sun gutters from the sky,
where the sew swings in like an iron gate
and we touch. In another country people die.
My darling, the wind falls like stones
from the whitehearted water and when we touch
we enter touch entirely. No one’s alone.
Men kill for this, or for as much.
and what of the dead? they lie without shoes
in their stone boats. They are more like stone
than the sea would be if it stopped. They refuse
to be blessed, throat, eye and knucklebone.
For My Lover, Returning to His Wife 1969
She is all there.
She was melted carefully down for you
and cast up from your childhood,
cast up from your one hundred favorite aggies.
She has always been there, my darling.
She is, in fact, exquisite.
Fireworks in the dull middle of February
and as real as a cast-iron pot.
Let’s face it, I have been momentary.
A luxury. A bright red sloop in the harbor.
My hair rising like smoke from the car window.
Littleneck clams out of season.
She is more than that. She is your have to have,
has grown you your practical your tropical growth.
This is not an experiment. She is all harmony.
She sees to oars and oarlocks for the dinghy,
has placed wild flowers at the window at breakfast,
sat by the potters wheel at midday,
set forth three children under the moon,
three cherubs drawn by Michelangelo,
done this with her legs spread out
in the terrible months in the chapel.
If you glance up, the children are there
like delicate balloons resting on the ceiling.
She has also carried each one down the hall
after supper, their heads privately bent,
two legs protesting person to person,
her face flushed with song and their little sleep.
I give you back your heart.
I give you permission—
for the fuse inside her, throbbing
angrily in the dirt, for the bitch in her
and the burying of her wound—
for the burying of her small red wound alive—
for the pale flickering flare under her ribs,
for the drunken sailor who waits in her left pulse,
for the mother’s knee, for the stockings,
for the garter belt, for the call—
the curious call
when you will burrow in arms and breasts
and tug in the orange ribbon in her hair
and answer the call, the curious call.
She is so naked and singular.
she is the sum of yourself and your dream.
Climb her like a monument, step after step.
She is solid.
As for me, I am watercolor.
I wash off.
Comments from the yahoo parallel universe:
I think highly creative people live on the edge. Balanced at time between elation and deep depression. It is that rawness that makes it possible to model the deep feelings in poetry or prose or art.
Tuesday February 5, 2008 – 04:47pm (MST)
I have always that to have the gift of words, and to be poet is a great gift, and I was thankful for it….but the ability to feel everything so acutely is also sometimes a burden….you know?…xo
Tuesday February 5, 2008 – 09:02pm (EST)
Creativity definitely can be a burden!
Tuesday February 5, 2008 – 09:04pm (EST)
Her life sounds so tragic as she struggled agains depression Her words in “For My Lover, Returning to His Wife” seem so defined and far from the description of her life. Like Jacqui said there is a fine line between elation and deep depression for artists of all types. Thanks for sharing!
Tuesday February 5, 2008 – 09:17pm (EST)
Thank you for am impressing, emotional entry. Made me reflect upon many things…
Wednesday February 6, 2008 – 04:49am (EET)
Oops the comment didn’t show up : Wow her life may have been tortured but such powerful writing!! I have heard of but never read Anne Sexton, for that matter I haven’t read Plath either despite having seen the movie Sylvia. Still stuck in the Emily Dickinson era, who I adore. Time to try out the relatively more contemporary poets. Cheers and see you around.
Wednesday February 6, 2008 – 12:17pm (SGT)
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Wonderful poems of an accomplished poet! Thanks for the introduction to the work of this wordsmith.
Wednesday February 6, 2008 – 11:07pm (EST)
Such a talented beauty, Anne Sexton. I particularly love her re-telling of fairy tales. I am most impressed by a poet who can take the sturm und drang & make it entertaining. The Confessional School really made a difference, did they not? They refused “to be blessed, throat, eye, and knucklebone.” Poissonally, I’d rather feel blessed. Is that just playing it safe? Well, then, maybe it is. Great choices!
Wednesday February 6, 2008 – 06:27am (CST)
I really enjoyed listening to the author.
Thankyou for these interesting verses…always a treat to visit.
Thursday February 7, 2008 – 01:16am (EST
Sexton was a deep talented female… you and your readers might want to read and hear about her further by glancing at this link to a post i did almost a year ago >>>>> do you know of THIS connection? >>>> http://blog.360.yahoo.com/blog-rwxtZYszabOHrbdWvmx.haE7KA1VGPIM?tag=mercystreet
redheadgirl4 wrote on Feb 5, ’08
Such a sad life story, and the poems convey that sadness. I thought at first she had post-partum depression, based on the timing of her depressions, but it seems to have been a lifelong struggle. I wonder why so many brilliant artists have that kind of struggle. I liked her work very much, and thank you for posting these. Hugs!
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sunaisarah wrote on Feb 5, ’08, edited on Feb 5, ’08
It’s so impressive I could hear herself with voice. I’ve read her intrerests are primarily in the domestic scene or crisis, in the cycle of life and human companionship, and in nature. thanks for sharing precious poems introducing her another poem.
– The Farmer’s Wife – From the hodge porridge of their country lust, their local life in Illinois, where all their acres look like a sprouting broom factory, they name just ten years now that she has been his habit; as again tonight he’ll say honey bunch let’s go and she will not say how there must be more to living than this brief bright bridge of the raucous bed or even the slow braille touch of him like a heavy god grown light, that old pantcmime of love that she wants although it leaves her still alone, built back again at last, mind’s apart from him,living her own self in he own words and hating the sweat of the house they keep when they finally lie each in seperate dreams and then how she watches him, still strong in the blowzy bag of his usual sleep while her young years bungle past their same marriage bed and she wishes him cripple, or poet, or even lonly, or sometimes, better,my lover,dead. |
eccentricmare wrote on Feb 5, ’08
this is a great gift, this is similar to my home accent, twas lovely to hear her … live now, live now… thank you so kindly for this thoroughly enjoyable and captivating post. Twas wonderful to have the full history and the works below – lovely.
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lauritasita wrote on Feb 5, ’08
These were so sad, it was hard to read. I liked reading the first one with her voice. I was reading what Cathy said about so many talented people suffer. I guess poetry is good therapy.
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nikinoelle wrote on Feb 5, ’08
wow…thank you for sharing these poems from writer Anne Sexton. Bold and filled with spirit as well as softly heart breaking. Enjoyed them both but particularly liked “my lover returning to his wife”. I also liked the background you provided about the author!
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bostonsdandd wrote on Feb 5, ’08
The last lines are the power. The wife is everything and the lover is nothing. The wife has it all and the lover has nothing. The wife is there to stay and the lover knows she will leave one day. I get this one Sans :o(.
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sweetpotatoqueen wrote on Feb 5, ’08
Reading her voice through writing reminds me so much of the themes of Sylvia Plath. Such wonderful metaphors that bespeak of her sadness within. Great poet!
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sanssouciblogs wrote on Feb 6, ’08, edited on Feb 6, ’08
sweetpotatoqueen said
Reading her voice through writing reminds me so much of the themes of Sylvia Plath. Such wonderful metaphors that bespeak of her sadness within. Great poet! As I was reading her bio, I was stunned by the similarities between Anne Sexton and Sylvia Plath. The fact that they were colleagues is revealing– I guess it was the times; women weren’t fully independent, they were fighting there way out of house work and duty. There weren’t the antidepressants we have now; I recall that shock therapy was used and who knows the long term effects of something so severe. Perhaps women were fighting to be themselves and it wasn’t as socially accepted.
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asolotraveler wrote on Feb 6, ’08
sexton was a deep talented female… you and your readers might want to read and hear about her further by glancing at this link to a post i did almost a year ago >>>>> do you know of THIS connection? >>>> http://blog.360.yahoo.com/blog-rwxtZYszabOHrbdWvmx.haE7KA1VGPIM?tag=mercystreet
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sanssouciblogs wrote on Feb 6, ’08
asolotraveler said
sexton was a deep talented female… you and your readers might want to read and hear about her further by glancing at this link to a post i did almost a year ago >>>>> do you know of THIS connection? >>>> http://blog.360.yahoo.com/blog-rwxtZYszabOHrbdWvmx.haE7KA1VGPIM?tag=mercystreet Please read the poem Solo graciously directed us to, it’s a beauty. |
greenwytch wrote on Feb 6, ’08
such a sad beauty……
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philsgal7759 wrote on Feb 7, ’08
I can definitely see the depression as part of her works. while I can acknowledge the talent at this point in my life I can’t say she’d be at the top of my reading list.
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sanssouciblogs said
As I was reading her bio, I was stunned by the similarities between Anne Sexton and Sylvia Plath. The fact that they were colleagues is revealing– I guess it was the times; women weren’t fully independent, they were fighting there way out of house work and duty. There weren’t the antidepressants we have now; I recall that shock therapy was used and who knows the long term effects of something so severe. Perhaps women were fighting to be themselves and it wasn’t as socially accepted. i was a fan of hers~ i love her poems especially the ambition bird..
@sanssouci I agree.. anne and sylivia were close friends indeed, though i believe anne have tried killing herself several times; but when sylvia tried and succeeded she felt alone (to think that her mentor committed suicide as well). i think anne have recurrent signs of depression and since problems regarding her life came up almost all at once, (oh and maybe a bit of post-partum contributed~~) maybe she could’nt take it anymore. either way i love her poems its very honest (i admire the poem she wrote entitled “the ballad of the lonely masturbator” – which was excellent.) |
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