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206. Mother-Daughter→Husband Journey: After The Fall — 14 Comments

  1. With all the love I have in my heart and positive desire to stay focused . I send to you these words that my heart is heavy reading about your Mother and Husband.
    Susan you have been there for you loved one.Always making sure the best care and kindness is 100 % .
    Always remembering through your beautiful photos of your Mother and You your journey through life . A gorgeous face child that grew into a stunning lovely woman. And the joy you found in your local deli or colorful experience at one of the many wonderful restaurants. Yes due to the covid restrictions we have seen less photos but I go back on your many posts and remember there were days of such joy spent with your family.
    No matter how difficult it has become for you . You have never forgotten the part of life you experienced which includes your beautiful joy for education.Your God given talent that you reached so many children in your life. Your beautiful talented ways you have in describing a meal you enjoyed. You made me feel I was there tasting every flavor that approached your lips.
    Your treasured times of a loving and kind husband. And a gorgeous handsome son so gifted so talented. But most of all a husband and son and mother that I do believe adores you and is so thankful to have such a tender loving beautiful person in there life .
    And that is you ,Susan !
    With all love i send to you with many hugs .
    I am proud to say were friends .
    I am so proud to say I know you.
    And I am so thankful to my beautiful wonderful sister Theresa (Tina) who many years ago introduced me to you.
    Love , Susan (Susie)

  2. We have all lived through bad times. Also sad times. And scarey times. But to live through all of them at once for such an extended period…one can only surrender and hope for relief in the not-too-distant future. I hope you can find some peace in little moments (like shooting pictures of flowers) throughout each day.

  3. Dear One,
    I read your word and nod in agreement . “”I will never be prepared for another loss”. How true these words! Nothing prepares us. You are already mourning your Mother who is slipping into her own reality as she fades from this world. Such a sad and sobering event to witness.
    I wish you peace, my friend.. I also wish that those secrets that await include an improvement of your husband’s condition.

  4. I first have to comment that who write so eloquently. You seem to have found some acceptance and inner peace. Coast along, dear Sue, and let life take you where you need to be. Your mother is comfortable and you husband is showing signs of improvement. You will get through this because you are who you are. Just breathe in deeply and calm yourself as you must take care of yourself as well. Love you. Pat

  5. I have no words for you except prayers for strength and peace. Love you and I’m standing with you in spirit (virtually). Hugs and love

  6. There’s absolutely no doubt that you’ve been dealt a double whammy. You seem to have been dealing with this forever. You know how sorry I am for your pain and anxiety. Hard though it is to think of, your Mum is going to go and for you, it will be a blessing. She has no quality of life and there is no more you can do as you have done all you can. There is no more. Never forget that. No daughter ever wants to lose a mother. It’s so final but it’s closure. No more wilderness for either of you. Your husband’s case is baffling and it would be easier on you if there was a diagnosis. I hope that there are some answers soon. I feel your pain and as I have said before your strength and courage is nothing short of incredible but you have to give yourself time to breathe. Life is a curve. Love as always my darling.

  7. Times are very disturbing/I am almost afraid to move things are so iffy!I just see your Mothers health so bad,your husband just having his falls.He does sound more like parkinson ‘s Disease.I will continue to pray for all of you.

  8. I have a friend whose husband has been diagnosed with atypical Parkinson’s. No tremors but significant mobility and balance problems I don’t know what meds he’s on but your description of your husband’s symptoms sounds very similar. He does PT 3x a week. Johns Hopkins has a page about it. I’m so sorry you are all going through this.

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