224.→Husband Journey: The Sans Souci Art Museum [Gallery 3]
From health update to trip to the Sans Souci Museum
featuring Robert’s art.
Last Friday’s Covid swab results finally came in, days later: negative. We are still in limbo. He has to return to the previous rehab; the current facility is not taking new patients. The previous facility is where he got Covid and had three falls from bed. Who know what is happening today? He’s become a nomad. And note: the word mad is in nomad. For several days I tried to reach him; he doesn’t answer the phone assigned to him. I leave messages for the staff to call me. Finally, about 3 nights ago, someone went into his room with a phone. “Say hello!” she instructed. I am about ten miles away: Hello! Hello!?
We connect. He sounds tired and a bit congested. It is 9:30-ish PM. I struggle as usual to make conversation. I try not to press any buttons or set off any land mines. I wait for that “aggressive” tone to his response. I blather and chat. I ask if he got the results of his covid test and what they were, He says, “no.” “does that mean you got them or didn’t get them or are they negative?” “No and no.” He thinks he is coming home. I remain neutral and silent. I ask a question to see how compos mentis he is: “We got something in the mail from the NYC Department of Taxation about the value of the house. What do I do with it?”
He follows what I am saying and responds, “nothing, it is just a form letter.”
That sounded sane enough.
None of his responses are overly “aggressive” or even noteworthy: he sounds kind of, well, normal, or more normal than usual. The new normal, a more quiet normal. Could it be that Covid had caused his belligerent crankiness?
Do you remember how nutty my mother got after covid? The hallucinations, the paranoia? That’s what Covid can do and that is what might have happened to his mental functioning. We may never know.
So, before we enter the art gallery, let’s go back to a memorable moment. Let’s get into a time warp and onto a plane back to one of our summer trips. It is 1980. July. We begin in Orvieto, Italy (our favorite place on earth and one of maybe 4 times we stayed there fostering dreams of retiring there. We drove to Spoleto for the music festival, then on to Perugia→San Marino→Firenze→Bologna→Venezia→Into August: Lagundo→Innsbruck, Austria→Vaduz, Lichtenstein→Lugano, Switzerland.
There was this side trip: On Monday, August 4th, we drove from Innsbruck to Oberammergau, Germany. It was a year of The Passion Play. I think Covid was in the back of my mind…days long ago, people had other problems. The plague.
Here’s a background: (you’ll get an idea for the size and scope with photos)
THE HISTORY OF OBERAMMERGAU PASSION PLAY
“Only Once Per Decade… The town vowed that if God were to spare them from the effects of the bubonic plague ravaging the region, they would perform a play every ten years depicting the life and death of Jesus. The death rate among adults rose from one in October 1632 to twenty in the month of March 1633. The adult death rate slowly subsided to one in the month of July 1633. The villagers believed they were spared after they kept their part of the vow when the play was first performed in 1634. The most recent performance was in 2010.
The play, now performed repeatedly over the course of five months, during the first year of each decade, involves over 2,000 performers, musicians, and stage technicians, all of whom are residents of the village.
The Oberammergau play has a running time of approximately seven hours. A meal is served during the intermission of the play. Audiences come from all over the world, often on package tours, the first instituted in 1870. Admission fees were first charged in 1790. Since 1930, the number of visitors has ranged from 420,000 to 530,000.
There were at least two years in which the scheduled performance did not take place. In 1770, Oberammergau was informed that all passion plays in Bavaria had been banned by order of the Ecclesiastical Council of the Elector, Maximillian Joseph at the behest of the Catholic Church. In 1780, the play was retitled The Old and New Testament. The new Elector, Karl Theodore, having been assured that the play was “purged of all objectionable and unseemly matter” approved the performance of the play. By 1830, the Catholic Church succeeded in halting the performance of all other passion plays in Bavaria. Only Oberammergau remained.”
So, permit me to tell you what happened.
The trip into Germany was a trip unto itself. You can say that every WWII movie was flashing before my eyes. “Veah izz youa eeeee?” said the guard holding his machine gun. What he was saying, in his best accent was: “Where is your I”? Pronouncing the letter i as eeee, referring to the letter I that is supposed to be on an oval sticker on the back of the car to indicate the country of origin. I don’t know how it is now with a common currency and open European borders but in those days you knew you were crossing into another country.
I explained to Machine-Gun-Guy who was all of maybe 25 years old and giving me the willies, that the car was rented and didn’t come with an eeeee: that required oval sticker with the letter I. After much angst, flashbacks of movies with German Shepards and war time horror, we got through the border. Why? Why Oberammergau, to a seven hour passion play that was not so kind at the time to some groups, in its interpretation of biblical history? Well, it was mentioned in The New York Times and we thought we’d check it out.
The play is held in a HUGE building, the size of a football field, with what seemed like thirty entrances, and we didn’t have tickets. People flocked from all over the world to see this extravaganza performed by the people of the town. We wanted to see what was going on in there…only a New Yorker would have the balls to walk around from door to door to door, find an open one and stride in.
Well, this is what happened: we walked for what felt like a half hour in the heat and came to an open door and stairs. In the open doorway, trying to catch a breeze, was a young, wavy-haired, blonde woman, trying to catch a breeze, sitting in a chariot, her legs dangling over the sides, smoking a cigarette. Behind her were stairs. Robert made a run for it up the stairs, I was right behind him—we were each carrying a couple of cameras—Robert opened the door at the top of the stairs, and had we walked one more step we would have been on the stage along with half the town in the middle of The Last Supper.
The blonde girl and her Roman guard friend asked: “Are you with the press?”
It was then we put it together that we were at the stage door, and we bolted like hell—to another entrance. And got in!
It was bigger than big in there, it looked like miles ahead to the stage, and miles behind to the back of a theater. The distance seemed infinite as was the number of people and lined along the walls every so often there was a guard holding a machine gun. (More wartime movie fantasies.) We were actually escorted to seats, despite having NO tickets, maybe because the play was likely into its third hour or later. Thousands of people were seated on folding chairs. There was a group behind us on a tour from Texas.
The “show” consists of a series of living tableaus and biblical re-enactments.
And, at some point the Crucifixion had begun on the stage with the Romans yelling, Croizen im!
After a couple of hours, our heads and behinds had had enough and we got up and left, first to the gift shop (no purchases were made save for a guide book), then back to our car which had no “I.”
Now for more of Robert’s art. Let’s go to the 3rd gallery and reflections of more serene times.
“These winters give life they do not still it.
In the cold there is a realization that the blood roars, the heart beats, the sinews stretch.
Every essential is magnified, every awareness is honed by this season that allows for no illusion,
and yet rewards its reality with an absolute verification of life,
the red-cheeked farmer in the kitchen with its throbbing stove;
he will stamp the snow from his boots,
pull off his gloves and hat and
muffler, swing his
arms, open his shirt and reach for
his mug of coffee.”
John N. Cole 1977
New York Times Endpaper
📌The series starts here:
Part 1: And The Band Played On … a mother’s life, a daughter’s journey
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You are an artist with your writing. Robert’s art work is lovely. Thank you for sharing the adventures of your life. Sending love and prayers.
Robert’s paintings are awesome. What talent! Thank you for sharing. Thinking of you. Love, Pat
Wow… that painting of Nova Scotia!
Your conversation with Robert gave me hope!!Signs of better days ahead.
What marvellous travel experiences. Thank you so much sharing. Your description of the Passion play makes me feel as though I personally experienced, as well.
Stay strong and thanks for the art exhibition by Robert Kalish. When so much is closed to the public now, it is so appreciated.❤️ Jackie
Wow! One talented guy. Thanks for sharing these beautiful photos. Hang in there! I hope more peaceful times are to come for you both.
I enjoyed the story of your experience, seeing part of the “Passion Play”. I almost went to see it back in 1970. Robert’s paintings look GREAT!
Cute story love the art
I am amazed at Robert’s artistry. I knew he was clever, but he’s very accomplished. I’ve noticed a progression from the first gallery to this one. I hope you’ll post more
You sure have had lots of adventures! Nice that Robert sounded sane. Maybe where he is now will have an opening before they move him! 🤞🏻 ♥️