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Sex and Power. Don’t Blame The Victim — 5 Comments

  1. You certainly weren’t alone in this. Your blog brought back some painful memories.

    I was fortunate enough to have found a MALE gyn who was kind, caring, & considerate. (He was just starting out, & I’d found him totally by accident) I know that wasn’t the case for many women back then, but I sent everyone I knew to him! He once told me that I was the reason he had a successful practice. I responded that HE was the reason for his success. Not one person I sent to him ever had a bad word to say about him. I cried when he retired.

    When I was commuting to H.S. (before transferring to our Alma Mater) I’d travel with several other girls. Since we went to a strict Catholic H.S., we were required to wear a hat as part of our uniform. We found a very unusual use for our hatpins!!!😆
    That’s not to say I was unscathed by all of it, but at least on the subway, my friends & I were, shall we say, creative 😆, & unmolested.

    But…we should NEVER, NEVER blame the victim!!! It’s encouraging to finally see women standing up for ourselves. We won’t suffer in silence any longer!!!

  2. Thank you, thank you
    Not going into my own experiences here but I appreciate you sharing.
    NEVER BLAME THE VICTIM
    NEVER SHAME THE VICTIM
    THEY ARE THE ONES THAT DESERVE COMPASSION NOT THE OFFENDERS

  3. Thank you to a friend, M.F.

    “I just read your blog. Wow. Your perfect recall of every detail lets me know that these events are seared in your memory. I am sorry- these events should never have taken place. Thank you for sharing. I agree it is time stop blaming victims.”

  4. Never ever blame the victim. NEVER!!

    Some of us were raped by our husbands…. who would believe? How do you report that? (Now an ex since 1989)
    Nuff said.

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